What many of these will tell you is that repairing a severed relationship with your adult child is difficult and quite often has feelings of stress attached to it, but it will remain an important and rewarding journey to take. But try to actively listen when you notice your child acting as such; start to accept him or her for who she is and be less judgmental; acknowledge that she is feeling “I” and identify what your feelings are in the situation too; apologize for the misdeeds done prior; respect their space and allow them to grow independently; spend good time together; please don’t be impatient with her and don’t act as if you missed her affection that wasn’t present before; and attend therapy together once in a while.