I tell everyone… Don’t look at something from one specific perspective and judge it negatively or positively, but look at it from several perspectives and know that your mind can use it in the way you want it to. Before you choose, know that your direction is not a requirement that it be true, because others who have chosen your opposite direction may be the most correct. It’s not important to choose; it’s important to be convinced of your choice and as reassuring as you are.